Damak, Nepal by W.F. Korner.
Most of the shameless racists I know have a "black best friend". I used to hold this simple fact against Gordon Allport's contact theory. Upon closer study, however, the BBF defense can also be construed as a validation of Allport's theory. It all depends on whether you take the BBF claim to be rooted in good intentions.
For example, it's not a secret that many television shows use the BBF to maximize the racial diversity in their programs. In most cases, the credit for the BBF must go to the profit motive. However, given that BBF's in mainstream media expose more children and adults to interracial friendships, the end result might be a positive one, a normative environment in which interracial friendships are considered to be prevalent and natural.
Gordon Allport's contact hypothesis (a.k.a. Intergroup Contact Theory) holds that, under appropriate conditions interpersonal contact is one of the most effective ways to reduce prejudice between majority and minority group members. If one has the opportunity to communicate with others, they are able to understand and appreciate different points of views involving their way of life. As a result of new appreciation and understanding, prejudice should diminish.
Intergroup conflict is spurred by stereotyping, prejudice, and discrimination between competing groups. The competition these days is over identity more than shared resources or economic goods. Allport believed that properly management of contact between competing groups should reduce these problems and lead to better interactions.
But there are more and less intractable conditions for conflict- namely, anxiety and negative interaction. In situations where contact creates anxiety for participants, intergroup contact will not cure conflict, Contact situations need to be long enough to allow this anxiety to decrease and for the members of the conflicting groups to feel comfortable with one another.
Similarly, if the members of the two groups use this contact situation to trade insults, argue with each other, resort to physical violence, and discriminate against each other, then contact should not be expected to reduce conflict between groups. To obtain beneficial effects, the situation must include positive contact. The profitable offices of marital therapists come to mind.
Power lines in Damak, Nepal by W. F. Korner.
REQUIRED READING: "Formation of Ingroups" by Gordon Allport
In a 2010 study, she found that Serbs who had regular and meaningful interactions with Muslims were more likely to acknowledge that their countrymen were responsible for genocide—more support for Allport’s contact theory. (The Chronicle of Higher Education)
Damak, Nepal by W.F. Korner.
Subsequent research has broadly supported Allport’s ideas, with a special emphasis on the importance of his first requirement – activity that goes beyond mere goodwill. Specifically, the thinking now prioritizes the pursuit of “super-ordinate goals” – goals compelling to both parties to a conflict that cannot be achieved by any one party alone. (Peace Players International)
The dry season in Damak, Nepal by W. F. Korner.
Thinking about migrants and migration may be cognitively difficult, but doing so may be highly beneficial. In fact, this makes a lot of sense given what we know about human adaptability. After all, we're biologically pre-disposed to like high-fat, high-calorie foods but that's hardly a recipe for a healthy life. Similarly, sticking just with what we know - never opening the mind to the experience of other cultures and customs - is a route to rigidity, conservativism, and narrow-mindedness. We may be cognitively pre-disposed to like simplicity, structure, and coherence, but it's people who break the mould who prosper most. (Psychology Today)
School in Damak by W. F. Korner.
On Salon, Brittany Cooper muses on the "politics of being friends with white people". I appreciate her candor:
I have always been skeptical of white people who claim that “one of my best friends is black.” Internally my response has always been, “They may be your friend, but are you their friend?”
I believe deeply in the power of friendship to make us better human beings. But interracial friendships, especially in adulthood, require a level of risk and vulnerability that many of us would rather simply not deal with. And that is perhaps one of racism’s biggest casualties: Beyond the level of systemic havoc that racism wreaks on the material lives of people of color, in a million and one ways every day, it reduces the opportunity of all people to be more human.